Never mind Der aaye durast aaye.
I would like to share with you a very interesting reading I had recently. This is called RedTrain and Blue Train.
In fact this was out of management practice which was adopted by Proctor and Gamble some years back.
This is what happen to most of us and this could be helpful on how do we come out of our current mindset.
Red is the symbol of fire and anger suggesting resistance and destruction while the blue is the symbol of sky and ocean which symbolizes abundance and possibilities.
You are either on red train or blue train at any point of time.
Everyday we are handling events. It all depends on how do we treat these events. In case we are treating this as threat ( NOT POSSIBLE or NOT ACCEPTABLE approach) then we react either to fight or flight. Fight triggers attack or resistance while flight triggers avoidance or Denial. One either aggressively react or withdraw from the situation. At the end of the day one has the feeling of anger,fear,guilt and sadness . Ultimately a looser situation. See this is what happen to us once we are on red train and treat the event as THREAT. We are in RED Train. A looser train.
Now see what happen otherwise. If we treat every events as opportunity.what happen is this creates a sustained flow of grasp, engagement or embracing. One decide to make the most of the situation. They apply their mind. They embrace new ideas. ( read the story of home depot). Their creative mind start flowing. Here one start engaging with the events. Interact with them and exploring them. They use magical thinking believing everything is possible and the issues can be resolved constructively. Positive energy start flowing. Creating growth and calmness triggering only more growth. It is the success cycle and you are on blue train.
So the only difference between win and loss is how you take the events. IS it OPPORTUNITY .. ( Believe everything is possible) or THREAT ... ( It can not happen).
SO watch every time are you on RED TRAIN or BLUE TRAIN....
happy riding...
sanjay
